Kevin's Social Blog: Books List

Ordered by most recently listened to, first.

Audiobooks

Queued:

Conundrum (1974) - Jan Morris
Angela Davis: An Autobiography (1974) - Angela Davis
Masha Gessen books
American Prometheus: The Triumph and Tragedy of J. Robert Oppenheimer (2005) - Kai Bird and Martin J. Sherwin
The Death of Expertise: The Campaign Against Established Knowledge and Why it Matters (2017) - Tom Nichols
24 Views of Mt. Fuji, by Hokusai (1985) - Roger Zelazny
Samurai William : the Englishman who opened Japan (2003) - Giles Milton
The Silver Snarling Trumpet: The Birth of the Grateful Dead―The Lost Manuscript of Robert Hunter (2024) - by Robert Hunter (Author), Dennis McNally (Introduction), Brigid Meier (Afterword), John Mayer (Foreword)
The Pillars of the Earth (1989) - Ken Follett
Solar Express (2015) - L.E. Modesitt Jr. (suggested perhaps mistakenly as by David Weber)
The Creative Act: A Way of Being (2023) - Rick Rubin
Perfume books by Luca Turin
Connie: A Memoir (2024) - Connie Chung
Patriot: A Memoir (2024) - Alexei Navalny
Wild Faith: How the Christian Right Is Taking Over America (2024) - Talia Lavin

Ministry of Truth: Democracy, Reality, and the Republicans' War on the Recent Past (2024) - Steve Benen
Beautiful Days: Stories (2024) - Zach Williams

Mouse traps: string represents an attractive (to mice) alternative to cheese, as they gather it for their nests
Breezy stories; there was one about a mother realizing her and her immortal child are in some forested prison and exist as cared-for, possibly-robotic prisoners, doomed to (at least her) eventually wear down 👀

Reading Genesis (2024) - Marilynne Robinson

For whatever reason, went into this book blind, and was surprised when the 2nd half turned into a straight-up reading of the book of Genesis (1st half is exegesis)

The God of the Woods (2024) - Liz Moore

Enjoyed this book

Of Boys and Men: Why the Modern Male Is Struggling, Why It Matters, and What to Do about It (2022) - Richard Reeves

Twice as many female ancestors (e.g., 1 in 200 present-day people directly descended from
Genghis Khan)...the author makes the point while discussing what to do when surplus men exist, and how it shapes male risk taking behavior. E.g., populations need women for reproduction, but not necessarily in 1-to-1 male/female ratio
Hikikomori also known as severe social withdrawal (Japan)

Life, the Universe and Everything (1982) - Douglas Adams (narrated by Martin Freeman)
The Restaurant at the End of the Universe (1980) - Douglas Adams (narrated by Martin Freeman)

Gargravarr's narration almost impossible to understand while driving (too much bass/distortion)
The "end" of the universe is the moment before it ceases to exist (i.e., in time)...not in distance (i.e., the "edge" of the universe)

The Hitchhiker's Guide to the Galaxy (1979) - Douglas Adams (narrated by Stephen Fry)

Stephen Fry narrates excellently

Ultramarathon Man: Confessions of an All-Night Runner (2006) - Dean Karnazes

Him running through the night hours to fit in runs has influenced my attitude over scheduling runs
The tampon gift "joke" to his friend has not aged well

My Name Is Barbra (2023) - Barbra Streisand

Tinnitus
Favorite ice cream: McConnell's Ice Cream - Brazilian Coffee (discontinued)
“My Name is Barbara,” the song that provides the book its title (albeit with a slightly different spelling), was written by Leonard Bernstein, and she took it up after discovering a book of sheet music of Bernstein’s compositions. “Can you believe it? I was amazed that such a thing existed,” Streisand writes of finding the song. “Now that’s bashert,” she added, using the Yiddish word for “meant to be.” (via)
Lucky number: 24 (birthday, etc.)
Hates: orange color
Experienced audience reacting to her showing restraint and barely holding emotion in check
On her relationship with Sydney Chaplin (son of Charlie Chaplin): "Sydney was well traveled, worldly. He had played tennis with Greta Garbo and turned the sheet music pages while Albert Einstein played the violin."
I think Streisand mentions Sodom (or Lot), which dovetailed into the previous book (The Horse, the Wheel, and Language)...Sodom was destroyed because of inhospitality, and the previous book mentioned the sacredness of the guest-host relationship
Fear is the energy to do your best work
The more you like yourself the more you are drawn to people like yourself
Cary Grant advice: get a tan (less makeup prep needed) and wear silk underwear
Dancing the shag (unclear which version)
If you repress, you repeat
The world mirrors how we see ourselves
"We're all mad. You're mad, I'm mad. The only difference is I respect my madness." - one of Streisand's therapists, in response to her saying "Sometimes I feel like I'm going a bit mad."
Gambling and trading stocks
Aerosmith song "I don't want to miss a thing" was inspired by Streisand's husband James Brolin, who said he misses her when he slept
Former-President Bill Clinton suggested book "The Four Agreements: A Practical Guide to Personal Freedom (A Toltec Wisdom Book)" by Don Miguel Ruiz

The Horse, the Wheel, and Language: How Bronze-Age Riders from the Eurasian Steppes Shaped the Modern World (2007) - David W. Anthony

This book was very interesting but also very dry in parts; I skimmed over a lot of the details
"Spanish and Portuguese show a difference of 15%. As a general rule, if 10% of the core vocabulary is different between two dialects, they are either mutually unintelligible or approaching that state, that is, they are distinct languages or emerging languages."
Proto-Indo-European origin not likely east of the Urals because no vegetation suitable for honey bees there (PIE has word for honeybees)
Finno-Ugric abbreviated to initialism "FU" as spoken by the narrator 😅
Kurgan ("a type of tumulus constructed over a grave, often characterized by containing a single human body along with grave vessels, weapons, and horses") reminds me of The Kurgan (Clancy Brown) from the movie Highlander (1986)
High-status community members
Crisis point discussions in cultures reminded me of Isaac Asimov's Foundation (book series)
Stele - how to pronounce singular vs. plural; the narrator says it two different ways
Wooden structures preserved by burning
Graves reveal findings about the person, even though their name was long forgotten
Guest-host relationships: "For example, the oldest recorded Germanic cognates for the word guest (Gothic gasts, Old Norse gestr, Old High German gast) are thought to be derived from a reconstructed late Proto-Indo-European *ghos-ti- (which probably meant both "host" and "guest" and thus referred to a relationship of hospitality between strangers rather than to one of its roles) through a Proto-Germanic form reconstructed as *gastiz."
Guest-host relationships are very old--pre-dating Homeric culture

Headshot (2024) - Rita Bullwinkel

This book zooms back and forth in time
Breezy, but good

Everyone Who Is Gone Is Here: The United States, Central America, and the Making of a Crisis (2024) - Jonathan Blitzer

Title refers to an experience during Juan's testimony, as he responds to a jury request to see his torture wounds--he imagines those who have died from the military persecution are now with him in the moment

Memory Piece (2024) - Lisa Ko

This book started a bit slow but drew me in ✅

Leonardo da Vinci (2017) - Walter Isaacson

Listened to this in 2019 (did not list any notes); listening again with Dawn
Pricking artworks for transfer
Leonardo da Vinci, Niccolò Machiavelli, and Cesare Borgia: "holed up together for three months during the Renaissance winter of 1502-1503 in the five blocks by eight blocks Italian walled garrison town of Imola."
Luminescence via fine layers of oil paint
Stage productions informed his mechanical works

Crucial Conversations: Tools for Talking When Stakes Are High (2002) - Kerry Patterson, Joseph Grenny, Ron McMillan, and Al Switzler

Perfect practice makes perfect

The Immortal Life of Henrietta Lacks (2010) - Rebecca Skloot
Arthur Ashe: A Life (2018) - Raymond Arsenault

Bentley and Rolls Royce vehicles used to shuttle Wimbledon tennis players
Ashe processing trauma & how that may have formed the basis of his cool demeanor
Romanian tennis player Ilie Năstase, speaking to his friend Ashe about Ashe's first trip to apartheid South Africa: "Hey, Brown Sugar, don’t let them put you in jail, ok?"
Jimmy Connors did not get along with Ashe (at least in Connors' early 20's)
Meeting Nelson Mandela: "“Arthur is here?” he asked, with obvious surprise and delight. “He’s right here,” David said, turning to me. “Oh my brother,” Nelson said, looking straight at me. “Come here!”"
Howard Thurman (1899-1981): "American author, philosopher, theologian, Christian mystic, educator, and civil rights leader"
Influenced by book "The Seasons of a Man's Life: The Groundbreaking 10-Year Study That Was the Basis for Passages!" (1978) - Daniel J. Levinson

The Future Is History: How Totalitarianism Reclaimed Russia (2017) - Masha Gessen

KGB statue preemptively removed in 1991 was hollow
"The Party" and no others
Innate, positive qualities of Russians? "This open question elicited, on the basis of 2,957 surveys, three leading qualities: 'open', 'simple', and 'patient.' The ideal Russian, it seemed, was a person without qualities. It was clear to Gudkov that this was the blank mirror of the hostile and violent regimes under which Russians had long lived."
"All of you, nothing spared--but how do you live without your self?" - Naum Korzhavin, "Tan'ka," in Vremya dano
"...three of the NKVD brass took three thousand cases with them on a train journey, got drunk, and engaged in a speed challenge: Who could go through a stack of cases fastest, marking each with the letter P. They were not reading the cases. The letter P--pronounced r in Russian--stood for rasstrel, "execution."
"Indeed, Yeltsin was proposing to dispense with all three of the 'energies' that Etkind has described as components of postcatastrophic recovery--knowledge, grief, and justice--and proceed directly to some imaginary future in which reckoning had been left behind."
"...The Blue Flame, the New Year's Eve variety show that had been in existence for a generation."
"Now Channel 1, which reached about 93 percent of Russian households, showed a film that sounded remarkably like the old show. Called Old Songs About the Most Important Things, it was billed as a musical."

The Passion of Pussy Riot (2014) - Masha Gessen
The Kingdom, the Power, and the Glory: American Evangelicals in an Age of Extremism (2023) - Tim Alberta

Worship America
Under seige

This Other Eden (2023) - Paul Harding (narration by Edoardo Ballerini)
World Travel: An Irreverent Guide (2021) - Anthony Bourdain (with Laurie Woolever, posthumously published)

Macau: pork chop bun
Melbourne: brat
Buenos Aires, Argentina: Going to therapy in Argentina is the norm
Negroni: 1/3 Campari, 1/3 Gin (e.g., Bombay Sapphire), 1/3 Sweet Vermouth (e.g., Stock Sweet Vermouth Rosso (Italy)) video of Bourdain preparing the drink
Atlanta: Clermont Lounge
Los Angeles: hotel Chateau Marmont
London: blood cake at St. John
Trinidad and Tabago: Doubles
Taiwan: Din Tai Fung
Malaysia (Kuching): laksa for breakfast
"So many of the good times traveling this world relate directly to finding a human face to associate with your destination, the food you eat, and the memories you’ll keep with you forever. The best times are when its impossible to be cynical about anything. When you find yourself letting go of the past, and your preconceptions, and feel yourself and your basic nature, the snarkiness and suspicion, the irony and doubt disappear, at least for a time. When, for a few moments or a few hours, you change."
Vietnam: "Do you smell that? Motor bike exhaust, fish sauce, incense, the faraway smell of ... something. Is that pork grilling over charcoal? Vietnam: It grabs you and doesn't let you go. Once you love it, you love it forever."
"Om nom nomnivore" (word coined by Dawn as I shared anecdotes from the book)

The Best Minds: A Story of Friendship, Madness, and the Tragedy of Good Intentions (2023) - Jonathan Rosen

Rosen experiences resonate
Psychadelic etymology: Mind manifesting
Thurgood Marshall cooked a great crab gumbo
"A delusion is only a delusion if you don't think it's a delusion" - Frederick Frese
"Read it? I haven't even taught it!"

Some People Need Killing: A Memoir of Murder in My Country (2023) - Patricia Evangelista

Transitive vs. Intransitive descriptions of murder

The Satanic Verses (1988) - Salman Rushdie
All The Sinners Bleed: A Novel (2023) - S.A. Cosby

Evil is rarely complicated. It's just fucking bold.
Ain’t nothing to do in small towns except fighting, fucking, and drinking
Even the finest sword plunged into saltwater will eventually rust
Use a workingman's tools for toys
This book was pretty great

What Have We Here? Portraits of a Life (2024) - Billy Dee Williams

Honestly appreciated his efforts to narrate, but the pauses detracted from the material (page turns?)
The name drops of people he knew and associated with
Audiobook gold: him pronouncing Lando Calrissian and "chandelier"
He practices Transcendental Meditation (unclear

The Heaven & Earth Grocery Store (2023) - James McBride

Return them to their milk
Has some pretty good lines
Started a bit slow (to me), but picked up my interest as it went

Knife (2024) - Salman Rushdie

Hearing it read by the author made it more powerful
Precise way of writing

A Runner's High: My Life in Motion (2021) - Dean Karnazes

Kardo nickname
Silk Road Ultra Marathon - stories from Uzbekistan, Kyrgyzstan, and Kazakhstan
Western States 100-Mile Endurance Run
Sage Summit aid station (Bishop High Sierra 100K):

Ice in Yeti coolers: cap, scoop in each pocket, water bottles
Piña Colada cocktail: icy cold, Captain Morgan rum, wedge of pineapple, & maraschino cherry (they had a blender powered by solar panels) 😅

King: A Life (2023) - Jonathan Eig

Coretta Scott King's given name comes from her paternal grandmother Cora McLaughlin Scott and an aunt named Etta
Authorship issues
"Great men ... have not been boasters and buffoons," wrote Emerson, "but perceivers of the terror of life, and have manned themselves to face it."
"Now Yoki told her mother that she hoped her father would stay in jail 'until he fixes it so I can go to Funtown.'"
"Later, King would joke privately that he had been fortunate: 'That was probably the fifth stabbing they had that night at that hospital,' he said. 'If you're gonna get stabbed, get stabbed in Harlem.'"
Most underrated speech: "The Other America"
The first major biography of King in 40 years
Style:

Shoes: Stacy Adams
Cologne: Aramis

The Covenant of Water (2023) - Abraham Verghese

Ending a bit too tidy
Good book overall though!

The MANIAC - Benjamin Labatut

"...[H]uman beings are not the perfect poker players that we envisioned. They can be highly irrational, driven and swayed by their emotions, subject to all kinds of contradictions. And while this sparks off the ungovernable chaos that we see all around us, it is also a mercy, a strange angel that protects us from the mad dreams of reason."
Klári Dán von Neumann's perversity: "There is no middle point with these great men, at least that is my experience, they are either morbidly lustful or completely cut off from their genitals, and my husband, who really had to excel at everything, was perhaps the most disgusting in his relationship with women. It's no surprise that most of them found him unsettling, he had some sort of fetish, because he would fixate on any pair of legs that walked by him, and even had the appalling habit of peeking underneath the desks of the secretaries at the institute. Some of those poor women had to stick pieces of cardboard there, just so that this great man, this Übermensch, would stop staring up their skirts. I despaired, I really did, but at the time I thought, "Well, Klari, this is the price you pay for exceptionality," and I convinced myself that it was so. I had such a poor image of myself, especially at first. I had almost no formal studies or practical skills, so I was at his mercy. It took a while for things to change, and they did...."
Eugene Wigner, on why von Neumann chose to travel into flee Nazi Germany: "He was so close, he said, so close to the foundations of mathematics that he could feel a tingle in his brain!"
Richard Feynman:

On the game of Go: "Go has a strange charm. It takes over your mind, you start to play it in your dreams. It's always running in the back of your head, whatever else you are doing. The best player at Los Alamos was Oppenheimer, but I got pretty good, pretty quick. Couldn't beat him, though. I later read that when they dropped Little Boy on Hiroshima, two famous Japanese grandmasters—Hashimoto Utaro, the national champion, and Iwamoto Kaoru, the challenger—were in the third day of a Go tournament, about three miles away from ground zero. The building they were playing in was almost completely destroyed, lots of people were injured, and yet these two guys, these Go masters, came back that very same day, after lunch, and continued to play on till the evening, while women and children were being pulled out from underneath the rubble and the entire city was ablaze. That's the Japanese for you. And that's how mesmerizing Go can be. It requires a particular type of intelligence and it's really intractable to computation, you have to feel your way around the board. It's spellbinding and unsettling, you cannot simply calculate what the next best move should be."
On soldiers seeing shadows of bones during the bomb flash: "During the first instant of the thermonuclear reaction, a brilliant flash of light issued forth from ground zero, the same light that I had looked upon at Trinity. Battle-hardened soldiers who had fought and bled in World War II dropped to their knees and prayed. They sensed that something unspeakably wrong was occurring when they saw their bones appear as shadows through their living flesh. Even those inside were almost blinded by streams of light that shone through the smallest cracks and pinholes in secured doors and hatches."

Julian Bigelow, on what Nils Aall Barricelli thought of Von Neumann: "Spoke of Johnny with undisguised contempt. He squats like a gluttonous spider on the web that ties all military and government interests. One of his milder insults."
Klára Dán, on Von Neumann's appearance on NBC program Youth Wants to Know (partially available on YouTube, accessed 2024-05-06):

"That ridiculous little TV program is the only extant record, the only film of him that exists. How can that be? A genius lowered to the status of a bumbling tour guide."
"It fills me with nostalgia, because in it you can hear so many of his mispronunciations (qwvickly, qwvestion, twvaining, or—his trademark—integhers), mistakes that were so common in his speech that I came to believe that he made them on purpose, since he was always perfectly articulate in all the other languages he spoke."

Klára Dán, on von Neumann breaking her prized ceramic elephant in a drunken rage: "I opened the door and I saw him there, covered in sweat and shivering with frustration, standing among the remains of my favorite ceramic elephant, the one I had lovingly placed on his desk so that he would be reminded of me when he worked, now smashed to pieces against the wall. I was almost blinded by rage; that particular keepsake had been a gift from my father, and I treasured it above all the others in my collection, but when I tried to confront him, he very gently pushed me backward into the hall, shut the door in my face, locked it, and made his way back to his desk, to continue working on whatever he was doing, crushing the remains of my elephant under the soles of his patent leather shoes."

The Man Without a Face: The Unlikely Rise of Vladimir Putin (2012) - Masha Gessen

“Faced with a brass band that was positioned to drown out free speech, Russian activists reacted to the potential confrontation with lemons. With activists eating lemons or pretending to, involuntary saliva reaction of the band made it impossible for them to interrupt.”
USSR broke apart along ethnic lines
"Informals" (or part of the informal movement)
"As a description of the decision-making process for appointing the head of the main security agency of a nuclear power, this conversation sounds so absurd, I am actually inclined to believe it."
Describes Putin as rash, angry
Doted on by parents

Surviving Autocracy (2020) - Masha Gessen

Institutions will not save you
Styrofoam cake: Inaugural cake was exact copy of Obama Inaugural cake, except it was mostly Styrofoam and by different baker
Kakistocracy: government by the least suitable or competent citizens of a state
"blunt instrument of reassuring ignorance": "Contrary to popular wisdom, they were not political savants, possessed of one extraordinary talent that brought them to power. It was, rather, the blunt instrument of reassuring ignorance that propelled their rise in a frighteningly complex world."
How to talk about extreme when it is common
Recorded in back of rental car during COVID
Let America be America Again: Poem by Langston Hughes
Narrowed circle of us
Liberty is a living flame to be fed
Unimaginable: “The thing is, if something is unimaginable, then anything that happens in the present, which is by definition imaginable, is not like it,” Gessen says. “And I think that’s the crazy mental trick that we’ve played on ourselves.”
Moshe Halbertal: "A moral life demands overcoming the natural human tendency to self-privilege."

A Confederate General from Big Sur (1965) - Richard Brautigan, read by Jim Meskimen

I...think he is joking about Big Sur joining the Confederacy (?)
"Ha-ha fire" reminded me of Beavis and Butt-Head
The sun broke like a beer bottle on the water
Amazing alligator noises by the narrator Mr. Meskimen 💯 😅

Killers of the Flower Moon: The Osage Murders and the Birth of the FBI (2017) - David Grann, read by Will Patton, Ann Marie Lee, and Danny Campbell

“This land is saturated with blood"...Then she repeated what God told Cain after he killed Abel; "The blood cries out from the ground."
Third part details other killings which extends the time period before & after

Legacy: A Black Physician Reckons with Racism in Medicine (2024) - Uché Blackstock MD

Software which still provides poorer outcomes for Black patients based on discredited science🤬

Novelist as a Vocation (2022) - Haruki Murakami
Bittersweet: How Sorrow and Longing Make Us Whole (2022) - Susan Cain

Heart is overflowing
Vagus nerve
Empathy: The Human Connection to Patient Care
Saturn: melancholy (etymology: Greek, "Black bile")
Melancholic (loyalty, personal power) vs anger (reward or punish) leadership style
Dead people goals (only dead are stress free)
Effortless perfection: Duck syndrome (Stanford; as in ducks gliding effortlessly on the water), Penn face (UPenn), etc.
May you be free... (saying)
You can wish everyone love
Yearning: place you suffer is the place you care
Sharing art
Sublimation
Individuation
Jacques Brel music
Memento mori
But even so
How many good years left?
Be well kid: her dad's final words too her

How to Keep House While Drowning: A Gentle Approach to Cleaning and Organizing (2022) - KC Davis

I am allowed to be human
Shame is the enemy of functioning
Drop the plastic balls
Tier 1: standards, not racist, sexist, classist, homophobic, transphobic,ableist, refrain from abusing it exploiting others, and always act with honesty and integrity
9 square: do the most good with least energy
Timed cleaning
Care tasks during wait times
Create momentum (e.g., via music)
Task initiation problems (vs. motivation, which is the desire to want something)
5 minutes was too big a goal, so what about less?
Baskets: Put them everywhere stuff already is
Can be organized & messy
Organized (having places and system for getting them there) vs. Tidy (how quickly this happens)
Being unwell does not mean you don't deserve kindness
Bullying oneself with yourself stepping in... Compassionate observer self voice (e.g., as you might with an animal)
Bypass the executive barriers
Find a functional reason to clean the floor (e.g., didn't like bits on feet), vs. making it a moral issue
Three Layers: basic safety, comfort, happiness
Home care for you: focus on function
It's OK friend: throw the things away
5 things tidying method (last one: things that do not have a place)...helps to have multiple quick finish lines
Getting unstuck: coffee vs candles
White knuckling sobriety--not sustainable
"It would be such a kindness to future me" (to do this thing now)
Care tasks are morally neutral
Slow quiet gentle
You don't exist to serve your space
PTSD around housekeeping?
Why is skinny important?

Our Enemies Will Vanish: The Russian Invasion and Ukraine's War of Independence (2024) - Yaroslav Trofimov

"They were both called Vova—shorthand for Volodymyr. “Like Zelensky?” I asked. “Like Zelensky and Putin, the two Vovas that got us into this crazy war,” the older Vova replied."
Ukranian national anthem:

Our enemies will vanish,
Like dew at sunrise,
And we, oh brothers, will become the masters once again
Of our own land.

An amateur pianist who spoke in short sentences peppered with curses, Kozhemiako admitted that he had little tolerance for the regular army’s ways. “We have a joke that the Russians will never understand the corporate governance of our army because we ourselves don’t understand it,” he said. “My business is built in a Western way. The company is smaller, and decisions are made quickly by one man.”

The Wager: A Tale of Shipwreck, Mutiny and Murder (2023) - David Grann

Scurvy
Various nautical terms: under the weather, three sheets to the wind, etc.
Re: John Duck, the free Black seaman who had gone ashore with Morris’s abandoned party, later captured and sold into slavery and who never got his story told: "Empires preserve their power with the stories that they tell, but just as critical are the stories they don’t—the dark silences they impose, the pages they tear out."
The sister-ship Centurion:

"After the Centurion was decommissioned and broken apart, in 1769, its sixteen-foot wooden lion's head was given to the Duke of Richmond, who had it placed on a pedestal at a local inn with a plaque that read:

Stay, traveller, awhile, and view
One who has travelled more than you:
Quite round the globe, through each degree,
Anson and I have ploughed the sea

Later, at the King's request, the lion's head was moved to Greenwich Hospital, in London, and placed in front of a ward for seamen, which was named for Anson. But over the next hundred years the artifact's significance faded, and it was eventually dumped in a shed, where it decayed into pieces."
Illustration:

How To Say Babylon: A Memoir (2023) - Safiya Sinclair

Burned Monique's note to ash while reading The Tyger by William Blake
Childhood memory of burning sugarcane and the ash falling
Fatherly advice: Polite but right; don't be a weak-heart; be a lionheart
Jamaican patwah:

"The I", and the "I-man"
My "glad bag buss" (my "glad bag burst")

Lie, A man's invention
"The artist life": outcomes of Sinclair's father vs David Lynch (both similarly self-absorbed, to me)
The memory of her father's actions still crumbles Sinclair to nothing
Pants, fixing her tooth
"Now I wore it like old clothing"
Sylvia Plath
Always write in the margins
She sprinkles lovely imagery throughout the book

Being Henry: The Fonz ... and Beyond (2023) - Henry Winkler

Winkler reminds me of a sweet spirited person

Come as You Are: The Surprising New Science That Will Change Your Sex Life (2021) - Emily Nagoski

Responsive desire
Main idea: illustrate how the idea of all the same parts organized in different ways extends far beyond our anatomy to every aspect of human sexual response - this might be the most important thing to learn about your sexuality
Accelerators & brakes (Foot brake consequences, hand brake failure)
Reduce stress, be affectionate towards your body, and let go of the false ideas of how sex is supposed to work
Context is 2 things: 1) the circumstances of your present moment (e.g., who you're with); and 2) Your brain state
Emotional one ring: liking, wanting, learning
Non-concordance – your body is not reacting the way your brain is. Your brain is not experiencing desire, yet your body is experiencing sexual arousal
Self indulgence
Co-narrator Nicholas Boulton does a variety of wonderful voices 🎖️
Anxious & avoidant attachment styles
Gardens
Mindfulness: practicing it one of the most important takeaways author hopes readers take from the book
Spectatoring

Chip War: The Fight for the World's Most Critical Technology (2023) - Chris Miller

"Ming's Chinese Restaurant was a staple of the Silicon Valley lunch circuit...for its famous Chinese chicken salad"
Intel: name comes from Integrated Electronics
Book provides context for electronics development
Fairchild logo building Hong Kong
Sony: name comes from Sonos sound
Etymology of the term "chip": "Multiple transistors could be built into a single slab of silicon or germanium. Kilby called his invention an "integrated circuit," but it became known colloquially as a "chip", because each integrated circuit was made from a piece of silicon "chipped" off a circular silicon wafer."

Making It So: A Memoir (2023) - Patrick Stewart

Vivien Leigh's perfume: Joy by Jean Patou (Still has the gold handkerchief; the perfume is no longer produced)
Secret to cure hiccups: stare and say words "You are cured" or such (in part--still secret part)

The Vaster Wilds (2023) - Lauren Groff

Naming things is power
This was a nice follow-up to Black AF History, re: European settlers and their early failures

Poverty, By America (2023) - Matthew Desmond

Tips (gratuity)--Desmond remarks on the history in America, which is explained in part from Wikipedia: Some have argued that "The original workers that were not paid anything by their employers were newly freed slaves" and that "This whole concept of not paying them anything and letting them live on tips carried over from slavery."

Black AF History: The Un-Whitewashed Story of America (2023) - Michael Harriot

That's the Way of the World (1975) song
Everything sounds better with a horn section
"This book is the sleeves" (re: story about childhood stolen puffy coat)
African etymology: Goobers (possibly Bantu: “n-guba,” which means peanut), tote bag ("West Africa, perhaps a variant of 'tota' – to pick up – in Kikongo or 'tuta' – to carry in Swahili")
Whites use more drugs than blacks
Whiteness is fear
Seasoning jokes
Chicken Bog recipe vs. Chicken Perloo Recipe
Very strong close

Humanly Possible: Seven Hundred Years of Humanist Freethinking, Inquiry, and Hope (2023) - Sarah Bakewell

War is sweet to those not acquainted with it. - Erasmus
Happiness is the only good. The time to be happy is now. The place to be happy is here. The way to be happy is to make others so. - Robert Green Ingersoll
Bertrand Russell almost died in a seaplane accident, surviving in part because he was in the smoking section
Pathology of dead atoms
Albert Einstein's oft-quoted aphorism that "great spirits have always encountered violent opposition from mediocre minds" originated in his open letter, dated 19 March 1940, to Morris Raphael Cohen, a professor emeritus at CCNY, supporting Russell's appointment." Russell eventually lost his case.
Learned Albert C. Barnes (chemist, founder of the Barnes Foundation, Philadelphia) funded philosopher Bertrand Russell after he was left stranded and penniless in America. Russell's lectures to the Barnes Foundation led to his book A History of Western Philosophy 💜

All Systems Red (The Murderbot Diaries) (2017) - Martha Wells

This was a breezy short listen with a clever plot
Antisocial murderbot

Sure, I'll Join Your Cult: A Memoir of Mental Illness and the Quest to Belong Anywhere (2023) - Maria Bamford

"As a young comedian in Minnesota, Bamford got turned on to Julia Cameron’s The Artist’s Way by another then-unknown comic, Frank Conniff (Mystery Science Theater 3000)"
"... [F]ight negative thoughts like "I am a hosebeast made of hoses and beast...." -- I have not heard this word since the 1990's 😅
"I'm a hog-pig. I hog-pig everything."

American Gods (2011 tenth anniversary edition, which includes the "author's preferred text" and 12,000 additional words) - Neil Gaiman

Midwest travels
Audiobook has full cast and I found it an excellent listen

Using the Libby app (via Overdrive).

E-Books

Print

Marathon: You Can Do It! (2001) - Jeff Galloway

Training for San Francisco Marathon 2024

Galloway's Book on Running: 3rd Edition (2021) - Jeff Galloway
How To Write Cheesy Movies: The Only Screenwriting Guide You'll Never Need! (2017) - Frank Conniff
Cats V. Conniff: A chronicle of the historic lawsuit brought against Frank Conniff by his cats, Millie & Barney by Frank Conniff (2017) - Frank Conniff

I hear Frank's voice while reading his written words

Dumb Dumb Dumb: My Mother's Book Reviews (2022) - Mary Jo Pehl

This was an honest, kind memoir
Cheesecake
Her mother's 10/10 review at the end hit me in the feels

Let's Make Ramen! A Comic Book Cookbook (2019) - Hugh Amano and Sarah Becan

Suggestions

Barack Obama's reading list

Summer 2024 reading list:

James: A Novel (2024) - Percival Everett
There's Always This Year: On Basketball and Ascension (2024) - Hanif Abdurraqib
~~Everyone Who Is Gone Here: The United States, Central America, and the Making of a Crisis (2024) - Jonathan Blitzer~~
~~Reading Genesis (2024) - Marilynne Robinson~~
~~Headshot (2024) - Rita Bullwinkel~~
~~The God of the Woods (2024) - Liz Moore~~
~~Beautiful Days: Stories (2024) - Zach Williams~~
Martyr! (2024) - Kaveh Akbar
~~Memory Piece (2024) - Lisa Ko~~
The Ministry of Time (2024) - Kaliane Bradley
When the Clock Broke: Con Men, Conspiracists, and How America Cracked Up in the Early 1990s (2024) - John Ganz
~~Of Boys and Men: Why the Modern Male is Struggling, Why It Matters, and What to Do About It (2022) - Richard Reeves~~
The Wide Wide Sea: Imperial Ambition, First Contact and the Fateful Final Voyage of Captain James Cook (2024) - Hampton Sides
Help Wanted (2024) - Adelle Waldman

2023 Favorites, end-of-year:

~~The Heaven & Earth Grocery Store - James McBride~~
~~The Maniac - Benjamin Labatut~~
~~Poverty, By America - Matthew Desmond~~
~~How To Say Babylon - Safiya Sinclair~~
~~The Wager: A Tale of Shipwreck, Mutiny and Murder - David Grann~~
~~Chip War - Chris Miller~~
~~The Vaster Wilds - Lauren Groff~~
~~Humanly Possible - Sarah Bakewell~~
~~King: A Life - Jonathan Eig~~
~~The Covenant Of Water - Abraham Verghese~~
~~The Best Minds - Jonathan Rosen~~
~~All The Sinners Bleed: A Novel - S.A. Cosby~~
~~The Kingdom, The Power, And The Glory - Tim Alberta~~
~~Some People Need Killing - Patricia Evangelista~~
~~This Other Eden - Paul Harding~~

Summer 2023 reading list:

Small Mercies: A Detective Mystery - Dennis Lehane
Hello Beautiful: A Novel - Ann Napolitano
Birnam Wood: A Novel - Eleanor Cotton
What Napoleon Could Not Do: A Novel - DK Nnuro
Blue Hour: A Novel - Tiffany Clarke Harrison

Dec 2019 (via):

The Age of Surveillance Capitalism: The Fight for a Human Future at the New Frontier of Power () - Shoshana Zuboff
The Anarchy: The Relentless Rise of the East India Company () - William Dalrymple (note: ebook only)
~~Furious Hours: Murder, Fraud, and the Last Trial of Harper Lee () - Casey Cep~~
Girl, Woman, Other () - Bernardine Evaristo
The Heartbeat of Wounded Knee: Native America from 1890 to the Present () - David Treuer
~~How to Do Nothing: Resisting the Attention Economy () - Jenny Odell~~
Lost Children Archive () - Valeria Luiselli
~~Lot: Stories () - Bryan Washington~~
Normal People () - Sally Rooney
The Orphan Master's Son () - Adam Johnson
The Yellow House () - Sarah M. Broom (note: ebook only)
Say Nothing: A True Story of Murder and Memory in Northern Ireland () - Patrick Radden Keefe b;
Solitary () - Albert Woodfox (note: ebook only)
The Topeka School () - Ben Lerner
Trick Mirror: Reflections on Self-Delusion () - Jia Tolentino
Trust Exercise () - Susan Choi
~~We Live in Water: Stories () - Jess Walter~~
A Different Way to Win: Dan Rooney's Story from the Super Bowl to the Rooney Rule () - Jim Rooney (note: not on Overdrive yet; published Nov 2019)
~~The Sixth Man () - Andre Iguodala~~

Aug 2019 (via):

~~Toni Morrison: Beloved, Song of Solomon, The Bluest Eye, Sula, everything else~~
~~The Nickel Boys by Colson Whitehead~~
~~Exhalation by Ted Chiang~~
~~Wolf Hall, Hilary Mantel~~
Haruki Murakami’s Men Without Women
~~American Spy by Lauren Wilkinson~~
~~The Shallows by Nicholas Carr~~
~~Lab Girl by Hope Jahren~~
~~Inland by Téa Obreht~~
~~How to Read the Air, by Dinaw Mengestu~~
~~Maid by Stephanie Land~~

Dec 2018:

~~Becoming by Michelle Obama (Overdrive)~~
~~An American Marriage by Tayari Jones (Overdrive)~~
~~Americanah by Chimamanda Ngozi Adichie (Overdrive)~~
~~The Broken Ladder: How Inequality Affects the Way We Think, Live, and Die by Keith Payne (Overdrive)~~
~~Educated by Tara Westover (Overdrive)~~
Factfulness by Hans Rosling

Note: ebook only (Overdrive)

~~Futureface: A Family Mystery, an Epic Quest, and the Secret to Belonging by Alex Wagner (Overdrive)~~
A Grain of Wheat by Ngugi wa Thiong’o

Note: ebook only (Overdrive)

~~A House for Mr Biswas by V.S. Naipaul (Overdrive: Recommended 01/01/2019)~~
How Democracies Die by Steven Levitsky and Daniel Ziblatt (Overdrive)
~~In the Shadow of Statues: A White Southerner Confronts History by Mitch Landrieu (Overdrive)~~
~~Long Walk to Freedom by Nelson Mandela (Overdrive)~~
The New Geography of Jobs by Enrico Moretti

Note: recommended 01/01/2019 (Northern California Public Library)

The Return by Hisham Matar

Note: ebook only (Overdrive)

~~Things Fall Apart by Chinua Achebe (read)~~
Warlight by Michael Ondaatje (Overdrive)
Why Liberalism Failed by Patrick Deneen

Note: ebook only (Overdrive)

~~The World As It Is by Ben Rhodes (Overdrive)~~
American Prison by Shane Bauer (Overdrive)
~~Arthur Ashe: A Life by Raymond Arsenault (Overdrive)~~
Asymmetry by Lisa Halliday (Overdrive)
Feel Free by Zadie Smith (Overdrive)
~~Florida by Lauren Groff (Overdrive)~~
Frederick Douglass: Prophet of Freedom by David W. Blight (Overdrive)
Immigrant, Montana by Amitava Kumar (Overdrive)
The Largesse of the Sea Maiden by Denis Johnson (Overdrive)
Life 3.0: Being Human in the Age of Artificial Intelligence by Max Tegmark (Overdrive)
~~There There by Tommy Orange (Overdrive)~~
Washington Black by Esi Edugyan (Overdrive)

Josh Marshall 2018 Holiday recommendations:

Eric H. Cline: Empires of the Word: A Language History of the World. Nicholas Ostler

1177 B.C.: The Year Civilization Collapsed (Turning Points in Ancient History)
Only History of Ancient Greece available

Babylon: Mesopotamia and the Birth of Civilization by Paul Kriwaczek

Note: ebook only (Overdrive)

Barry Cunliffe: By Steppe, Desert, and Ocean: The Birth of Eurasia

Nothing as of 01/01/2019

Felipe Fernandez-Armesto: Pathfinders: A Global History of Exploration

Note: ebook only (Overdrive)

David Anthony: The Horse, the Wheel, and Language: How Bronze-Age Riders from the Eurasian Steppes Shaped the Modern World

Recommended 12/31/2018

Roger Crowley: Empires of the Sea: The Siege of Malta, the Battle of Lepanto, and the Contest for the Center of the World

City of Fortune and Conquerers recommendable as audiobooks

David Abulafia: The Great Sea: A Human History of the Mediterranean

Nothing as of 07/18/2018

James Romm: Ghost on the Throne: The Death of Alexander the Great and the Bloody Fight for His Empire

ebook only (Overdrive) as of 07/18/2018

Peter Heather:

The Fall of the Roman Empire: A New History of Rome and the Barbarians
Empires and Barbarians: The Fall of Rome and the Birth of Europe
The Restoration of Rome: Barbarian Popes and Imperial Pretenders
Note: ebook only; audiobook not recommendable (Overdrive) as of 07/18/2018

Hugh Thomas: Conquest: Cortes, Montezuma, and the Fall of Old Mexico

Nothing available as of 07/18/2018

Lionel Casson: Libraries in the Ancient World

Unavailable in any format (Overdrive)
Life in Ancient Rome recommendable as Audiobook (Overdrive)

Josh Marshall 1066 Norman Conquest Discussion:

Short History of the Normans (2016) - Leonie V. Hicks
The Norman Conquest: The Battle of Hastings and the Fall of Anglo-Saxon England (2013) - Marc Morris
The Norman Conquest: England after William the Conqueror (Critical Issues in World and International History) (2007) - Hugh M. Thomas
Britain After Rome: The Fall and Rise, 400 to 1070 (2011) - Robin Fleming
William, King and Conqueror (2013) - Mark Hagger
Conquest and Colonisation: The Normans in Britain, 1066-1100 (1994) - Brian Golding
The Normans in Europe (2000) - Elisabeth van Houts
William the Conqueror (The English Monarchs Series) (2016) - David Bates

2018-01-08: David Finkel's The Good Soldiers (via)

Note: ebook only (Overdrive)

Mike Liebhold (via):

Travels with a Tangerine: A Journey in the Footnotes of Ibn Battutah
Granada: A Pomegranate in the Hand of God
Heirs to Forgotten Kingdoms: Journeys Into the Disappearing Religions of the Middle East

UCSC LIT 61U - Introduction to SF (online class):

The Left Hand of Darkness, Book I of the Lilith's Brood Trilogy (1969) - Ursula K. Le Guin
Dawn (1987) - Octavia E. Butler (note: not on Overdrive)
Childhood's End (1953) - Arthur C. Clarke (note: not on Overdrive)
"The Cold Equations" (1954) - Tom Godwin (note: not on Overdrive)
Sail On! Sail On! (1952) - Philip José Farmer (note: not on Overdrive)

John Cole (via):

The Thinking Woman's Guide to Real Magic (2013) - Emily Croy Barker
Dreamland: The True Tale of America's Opiate Epidemic (2015) - Sam Quinones
Winners Take All: The Elite Charade of Changing the World (2018) - Anand Giridharadas

Bookshop Santa Cruz - Winter 2023 reading list:

North Woods: A Novel - Daniel Mason
Signal Fires: A Novel - Dani Shapiro
Swimming Back to Trout River: A Novel - Linda Rui Feng
Elder Race - Adrian Tchaikovsky
More Than You'll Ever Know - Katie Gutierrez
The Sun Is a Compass: My 4,000-Mile Journey into the Alaskan Wilds - Caroline Van Hemert
The Art Thief: A True Story of Love, Crime, and a Dangerous Obsession - Michael Finkel
Poet Warrior: A Memoir - Joy Harjo

Ask A Manager 2023 recommendations (she bolded her favorites of the favorites):

How Lucky - Will Leitch
Ms. Demeanor - Elinor Lipman
Mouth to Mouth - Antoine Wilson
L.A. Weather - María Amparo Escandón
Lolly Willowes - Sylvia Townsend Warner
Silver Sparrow - Tayari Jones
A Quiet Life - Ethan Joella
None of This Would Have Happened If Prince Were Alive - Carolyn Prusa
Happy All the Time - Laurie Colwin
All Together Now - Matthew Norman
Vintage Contemporaries - Dan Kois
The Sweet Spot - Amy Poeppel
Sam - Allegra Goodman
Small Admissions - Amy Poeppel
The Helpline - Katherine Collette
Pineapple Street - Jenny Jackson
Romantic Comedy - Curtis Sittenfeld
Limelight - Amy Poeppel
Liars and Saints - Maile Meloy
Vera Wong’s Unsolicited Advice for Murderers - Jesse Q. Sutanto
Yellowface - R.F. Kuang
Bad Summer People - Emma Rosenblum
Games and Rituals - Katherine Heiny
Every Heart a Doorway - Seanan McGuire
By the Book - Jasmine Guillory
Barbara Isn’t Dying - Alina Bronsky
My Last Innocent Year - Daisy Alpert Florin
The Guest - Emma Cline
The Truth and Other Hidden Things - Lea Geller
The Innocents - Francesca Segal
The Appeal - Janice Hallett
Sunshine Nails - Mai Nguyen
Heartburn - Nora Ephron
Maame - Jessica George
The Connellys of County Down - Tracey Lange
Tom Lake - Ann Patchett
You Can’t Stay Here Forever - Katherine Lin
Fifth Avenue Glamour Girl - Renee Rosen
The Whispers - Ashley Audrain
An Available Man - Hilma Wolitzer
Daughters-in-Law - Joanna Trollope
Flight - Lynn Steger Strong
High Maintenance - Jennifer Belle
Mrs. Caliban - Rachel Ingalls
Hello Beautiful - Ann Napolitano
A Family Daughter - Maile Meloy
Family Happiness - Laurie Colwin
The Man I Never Met - Elle Cook

Bill Gates 2023 reading list:

The Song of the Cell: An Exploration of Medicine and the New Human - Siddhartha Mukherjee
Not the End of the World: How We Can Be the First Generation to Build a Sustainable Planet - Hannah Ritchie
Invention and Innovation: A Brief History of Hype and Failure - Vaclav Smil

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