Showing posts with label fritz bechdolt. Show all posts
Showing posts with label fritz bechdolt. Show all posts

Monday, May 06, 2019

Fritz & Jim - High School Memories

Memories of high school hanging out with my friends Fritz & Jim:
  • Running jokes:
    • Secret Weapons of the Luftwaffe: someone realized "left-waffle" sounded hilarious
    • VGA vs. Super-VGA graphics (?) I think this was an advertisement in a PC trade magazine
  • BBS door games:
  • PC games:
  • Sega Genesis:
  • Board games:
    • Risk
  • Sports:
    • One-on-two basketball in Fritz's mom's horsebarn
    • Tennis at the 6th St & 3rd Ave courts (now gone)
  • Random:
    • Fritz's house:
      • His mom had a fridge in the adjacent basement room with horse semen, as she bred horses
      • The basement smelled like potpourri: on 2021-11-07, I smelled a potpourri jar at World Market and it brought me back--the label read, "Pomegranate/orange, filled with notes of pomegranate, orange, cinnamon, clove, vanilla, and cider".
      • Two Boston Terriers: I forget the names, but remember them snuffling a lot
      • Jim and I would sleep on the floor on opposite sides of Fritz's bed; I remember the noise of the ceiling fan 
      • We'd stay up well past midnight, but as time went on Fritz seemed to want to go to bed earlier
      • Sometimes I'd get up first and head downstairs and play Civ 
      • Remember getting excited about hearing how the federal government had mandated fuel efficiency standards going up to something like 50 mpg in 10-15 years ... it would take a bit longer, but we're getting there
      • Fritz's brother Alex came home from military training and showed us what he called his "anti-rape glasses" (basically chunky black frames)
      • His family liked white chocolate
      • Sometimes we'd eat at the dinner table upstairs with his parents
      • The tank above the toilet overflowed at one point, and I was clueless about how to fix it
      • Broke my glasses one night playing basketball
      • The horse barn lights took a long time to illuminate enough so we could play -- it was cold
      • Played basketball on packed earth in the far corner of the horse barn
      • We'd walk over to Memorial Medical Center where Stephen Bechdolt worked as a pathologist and watch TV (Batman: The Animated Series), then Dr. Bechdolt would drive us around town
      • I remember Fritz and his dad talking about attending a family reunion in Germany, and remarking on my surname as well
      • Fritz's dad was thinking about buying an AK-47 before a gun ban went into effect (unsure if he did)
    • Jim's house:
      • At Jim's house we'd sometimes play Nerf basketball; I think Fritz brought over his PC, so we'd at least have two
      • Milk in clear plastic bag in a pitcher (remember because it had a distinct taste from what I was used to)
      • Surviving relative: Jeff
    • PC's:
      • Fritz had two PC's, I think: 
        • One dedicated to running a BBS
        • Two lines in his house
        • One had an Intel 80486 and the other an Intel 80386, I think
      • Turbo buttons, heh
The social aspects and gaming sparked my decision to go into Computer Science after high school. They were my people and closest friends in high school.

Tuesday, April 30, 2019

Remembrances - Fritz and Jim

"If I knew the way I would take you home…"

Freidrick Otto ("Fritz") Bechdolt obituary, 11/06/1976–02/07/2019:
Freidrick Otto Bechdolt, 42, of Spring Hill passed away February 7, 2019. Michels-Lundquist Funeral Home will be handling the arrangements. He will be dearly missed by his family and friends.
Notes:
  • Burial location: unknown (to me).
  • Social media:
  • Business:
  • Health: 
    • Circa September 2017:
      • "... fractures combined with psoriatic arthritis. Currently on humira, prednasone, painkiller, propranolol. Also taking a nitrogen export supplement to help with fluid build up. Fractures include left tibia, fibia, and around the ankle. A  little less than two weeks since the breaks" (via, via)
      • "Changes in my symptoms include much more pain, obviously but also extreme fatigue and weakness"
    • Circa Feburary 2017: Prednisone use (via): "used to treat conditions such as arthritis, blood disorders, breathing problems, severe allergies, skin diseases, cancer, eye problems, and immune system disorders."

  • Relationships:
  • Interests:
  • Death:
    • Timmy Daniels' request for info (02/11/2019):
      • "We got the answers we were looking for sadly. If anyone wants to know more you can message me. Tragic."
      • "If anyone ever has depression or an illness or substance issues like alcohol I hope you know you can talk to me & that I don’t have a judgmental bone in my body. You can be honest with me. I know it feels safe to hide it, but it’s safer to tell someone. It could change everything."
      • "I can tell you everything. I’m coming down to Florida & am going to arrange some kind of final send off because they aren’t having a funeral I guess. Some tragedies are like that, but I know many people would like some closure."
      • 03/03/2019: Erin Denise Butler > Timmy Daniels: "I would like to know, if you do have any kind of arrangement for him..... And wanting to know more about what happened. He posted a messaged about a week before. He said he wasn't doing well. I asked if he was in the hospital... No response. Then this.."
James Lee ("Jim") Nelson Jr. obituary, 03/04/1977–07/11/2012:
James Lee Nelson Jr., age 35, formerly of Ashland, passed away, Wednesday, July 11, 2012 at his home in Smyrna, GA. He was born March 4, 1977 in Ashland, the son of the late James and Jeanne (Koleski) Nelson. 
James graduated from Ashland High School in 1995. He continued his schooling at the University of Wisconsin Eau Claire and completed his degree in Engineering at the University of Southern Florida. James was currently working as a mechanical engineer for the SCI Energy Company in Atlanta, GA. 
James was an avid collector of baseball and football cards. He enjoyed playing tennis and occasionally would compete in marathons. He was a bright and intellectual man who will be deeply missed by all who knew him. 
He is survived by his brother, Jeffery (Stacey Delgado) Nelson of Appleton; a nephew, Zaccari Nelson of Ashland; two nieces, Daisy Nelson of Ashland and Madyson Nelson of Appleton; uncles and aunts, Mary Lou and Clarence Gregoire of Ashland, Al and Donna Mae Lundquist of Ashland, Shirley and Leon Osredkar of Sturtevant, and Joe (Pat McPherson) Nelson of Scottsdale, AZ; and numerous cousins and friends. 
Besides his parents, Jim was preceded in death by his uncle and aunt, Carl and Betty Anderson. 
A memorial service will be held at 11:00 AM, Tuesday, July 24, 2012 at Frost Home for Funerals in Ashland with Pastor Rod Larson officiating. Inurnment will follow the service in the St. Agnes Cemetery in Ashland.
Jim's grave.

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